Dress for Success – story of fashion and empowerment

They say that FASHION is about more than clothing but it symbolize empowerment and confidence to face the world. Everyday, I wear different clothes and portrays a different role. I can be fierce, sweet, dainty and energetic or sometimes, i can just be a simple mom to my two kids.  Whatever clothes I wear defines who and what I am as a woman, employee, student, mother, wife, blogger and social media influencer.

“Clothes are powerful, you’re selling confidence because what you wear has the ability to tell a story about who you are.” These words are too powerful that can define you as a person and what you want to portray in life.   They say that your personality is often a strong indicator of what you wear and because our moods differs everyday, there are tendency that your fashion will vary on your daily moods.

Professor Karen J. Pine, of the University of Hertfordshire  (U.K.) writes in her very short book Mind What You Wear: The Psychology of Fashion “When we put on a piece of clothing we cannot help but adopt some of the characteristics associated with it, even if we are unaware of it.”

Finding the right clothes not just boost our confidence but give us life and meaning.  My clothes does not just affect my confidence level but also influences my day. I believe in FashionCare and most of all I don’t forget that confidence is the best of accessory in life, so I have to grasp every moment and live each day with gratitude and happiness.

Take a peek into my life and the different clothes I wear that defines who I am as a person.

I was once an ugly duckling, I have no idea on how to dress properly, fashion is never my thing in the past until one day when I decided to become a BLOGGER and social media influencer, my life change in a drastic but good way. I need to be versatile and  not just following the hottest trends in the net but I wanted to show my readers that despite our busy schedules and life, a mom like me can still be chic, fashionable and always ready to take the world at the tip of my hand.  As a blogger, you need to define your style.  It takes a lot of effort to balance your life as an employee, a mother and a wife and a social media influencer. I believe that there will always be crazy and lazy days but it doesn’t mean that you should stop taking care of yourself and look great not just on your outside but also on the inside. So, even If you wear your high heels or boots, color your nails blue or green and put on red or orange lipsticks, wear your best self.

One is never over-dressed or underdressed with a Little Black Dress.’ – Karl Lagerfeld

Live the life you wanted and do the things you enjoy doing.  That is one thing I have learned in my life. Helping our environment and creating awareness on healthy living is what I believe is a part of my role, my social responsibility. I find confidence on knowing that others believe in me and follow the advocacy i chose.

“Clothes aren’t going to change the world, the women who wear them will’ – Anne Klein

 Through FASHION  and the clothes you are wearing, you are creating a big impact on promoting your advocacy.

green living advocacy, pink for life, red for children advocacy

Don’t be into trends. Don’t make fashion own you, but you decide what you are, what you want to express the way you dress and the way you live.’ – Gianni Versace

warriors in pink (a ford cancer advocacy)-   handmade jewelry, wood watch and organic shoes

And the best clothes I LOVE THE MOST is being a WIFE and MOTHER. Being with my family forgets all my worries and help me realize the things I am willing to sacrifice and willing to give up for the sake of their happiness. With them, i don’t need to wear my stylish dress or my stilettos but I can always wear my best PASSION, being a good mother and wife and share to my children my passion for fashion.

‘Anyone can get dressed up and glamorous, but it is how people dress in their days off that are the most intriguing.’ – Alexander Wang

The clothes we wear defines who we are  and each day we wear a different fashion, let us all remember to be a woman of substance and beauty and most of all with purpose, having that confidence to take on every challenge that comes our way will make our life worth living. Just like Electrolux UltimateCare Washing Machines who believes that every one has it’s own power and by believing in that, they were built not just to make your clothes clean but taking care of your clothes to last longer.

It's official! Rajo Laurel is the first-ever Electrolux FashionCare Ambassador! Catch a glimpse inside his amazing studio. #RajoxElectrolux

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Here’s a simple tip to boost your confidence through the way you dress 🙂

    • Dress for success, be comfortable on your body, embrace all your flaws and remove all insecurities.
    • Find the right color that compliments your own skin.  Get the right fit and cutting. Some people start from the basic colors like, black, grey, white. But you can go with bright colors and designs if you like.
    • Sunglasses, accessories are some of the things that can help boost your appearance. Get some quality pieces that goes along with your clothes.
    • Dress appropriately according to occasion.  It’s always nice to be unique but don’t forget that there are some appropriate clothes on different occasion which you needed to consider.
    • Find the clothes that will suit your personality and always go out from your house with a positive mind and most of all give your best on everything you do.
    • Be align with your fashion.  They say that what you wear represents your personality.  So, make sure you are sending your true intentions.

And now, i am ending my post by sharing you my favorite quotation from my favorite actress.

  • The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It’s the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows and the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years.’ – Audrey Hepburn

    Be congruent, be authentic, be your true self.

    lots of love 🙂  melandria

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  1. brenda tende says:

    love that pictures. good luck.

  2. Yay! Keep on writing and blogging – and sharing your fashion. Oh btw, Electrolux is a trusted brand!

  3. Your outfit blends well with your beautiful body. You have a good eye for choosing the right dress to wear. And yes, I agree with what Rajo Laurel said in his video. Nice!

  4. Galing mo sis! You are one smart dresser. Ako naman, kahit ano lang. I am sometimes just forced to dress up. hahaha

  5. Marilet I. Estrella says:

    oh my .. so beautiful pix.. love love love it all….
    good luck

  6. You are beautiful inside and out! You look great no matter what you are wearing.

  7. I have always admired you for managing to juggle work, family, your personal aspirations and being stylish. Ang hirap kaya uma-aura while doing all of those things and being a mom to growing kids. I guess it is because of the confidence that you gained throughout the years and the experiences you had in life. Stay being awesome and inspiring others to aim high and strive to what they love doing.

  8. You are gorgeous ri! Everything that you wear looks good on you…😘

  9. I share your views about clothes boosting one’s confidence. I have been in the corporate world for more than a decade and impeccable style has always been an advantage. 🙂 However, at the end of the day, for me personally, I would like to just be in my shirt and shorts and cuddle with my baby. No matter what I wear, I feel like the best-dressed woman in the world. haha. 🙂

  10. Wow! Thanks for sharing these tips! The beauty of a woman indeed is in her eyes… but maganda pa din ung maganda tayo sa labas at loob natin… kaya go go go sa fashion care na may fashion sense…

  11. I couldn’t agree more! I love seeing your different ootds simply because it shows the fun side in you. 🙂

  12. We agree with being confident and being able to wear personalities. We wear red all the time because it’s easy to mix and match with everything. Love the pictures. You do look like a brave, bold and beautiful woman!

  13. Blair villanueva says:

    Style helps to boost our confidence. Eventually when you discovered your signature style, you will feel more confident and free.

  14. I like how you mix and match the colors and prints! I hardly dress up these days (jusko, naghahatid lang naman ako ng bata sa school at nag-go-grocery, lol); minsan nakaka-miss din pala magsuot ng smart casual/semi-formal, which I used to do very often when I was still a corporate employee. 😀

  15. emma ibana says:

    love your fashion and the confidence you show on your style

  16. bernardino eliza says:

    i wish i have a chance to dress up too, I am usually at home. Love that style you have.

  17. I love the way you dress, Ria!!! You carry your clothes confidetnly

  18. Nice blog Dear. You’re a woman of fashion and style indeed. At the end of the day, its how we carry ourselves amidst the hustle and bustle of life. To me, that is fashion, because fashion is life and life is fashion. =)

  19. Nice blog Dear. You’re a woman of fashion and style indeed. At the end of the day, its how we carry ourselves amidst the hustle and bustle of life. To me, that is fashion. =)

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